Q: My coworker keeps taking credit for my ideas. How do I address it without looking petty? Protecting your contributions is not petty. Your work, ideas, and results are part…
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Strategic Career Advice for Ambitious Women
This weekly feature was created and curated by Lani Shaw
ICF Certified Executive Coach & Attorney
Q: I don’t want my boss’s job. Does that mean I’ve reached the end of the road at my company? Absolutely not. But it may be time to stop letting the…
Q: My boss keeps giving me more work because I’m good at my job. How do I stop being rewarded with more work? This is one of the frustrating realities of…
Q: I got the title I wanted, but the salary increase was disappointing. Is it too late to negotiate? No, but the conversation may look different now that you've accepted the…
Q: I want to pivot, but this job market is crazy. How do I start? The headlines can make anyone nervous. Layoffs, hiring freezes, and stories about hundreds of applicants…
Q: There's a project I know I'm ready to lead. How do I tell my manager? One of the biggest career mistakes I see is waiting for someone…
Q: I want to use my vacation time, but we're so busy at work. Should I wait? I hear this all the time, especially from high performers. You care about…
Q: Why do I feel less confident now than I did earlier in my career? A: Many professionals are surprised when confidence becomes more difficult as their careers advance. Early…
Q: How do I stop comparing my career progress to everyone on LinkedIn? A: The first thing to remember is that LinkedIn is a professional highlight reel. Most people share promotions,…
Q: I’ve been doing leadership-level work for years. How do I finally get the title and pay? A: One of the most common mistakes I see professionals make is assuming their hard…
Q: I’ve been laid off multiple times. How do I explain that without sounding negative in interviews? A: First, know that layoffs are not the career red flag they once were. Many…
I’m balancing work, family, and constant pressure to prove myself. How do I manage burnout when stepping back doesn’t feel like an option? First, I want to acknowledge something: a lot of…
How do I continue to grow in a space that no longer feels invested in me? First, trust what you are noticing. Sometimes people stay in denial for too long because they…
How do I overcome imposter syndrome in a high stakes environment and stop second guessing myself? First, understand this: imposter syndrome is extremely common in high performing environments. Especially when you are…
I don’t have a sponsor. How will I find someone who will advocate for me behind closed doors? First, let me normalize this: a lot of talented professionals do not have sponsors.…
I failed my professional exam. How do I regroup and what do I do next? First, I want you to know this: failing a professional exam can feel devastating. Especially when you…
I work remotely and feel invisible compared to in office peers. How can I stay visible and competitive without sacrificing flexibility? Visibility in a remote environment does not happen by accident. You…
I’ve been in my role for years but keep getting passed over for management. What am I missing, and how do I break through the first promotion barrier? This is one of…
My workplace is leaning heavily into AI, but I haven’t been encouraged or trained. How do I catch up without feeling left behind or exposed? You cannot wait to be tapped on…
I recently discovered I’m being paid less than male colleagues in similar roles. How do I address pay inequity without risking my position? First, take the emotion out of it and…