Extra income isn’t just about buying more things. For many women, additional income represents breathing room. It’s the ability to pay a bill without rearranging three others. It’s increasing savings. Paying down…
September has arrived. The stores have decided it’s autumn. Pumpkins are everywhere. Sweaters are on mannequins. Boots have returned. Meanwhile, outside? Eighty-seven degrees. This is the annual fashion dilemma. Your heart says…
There is something wildly disrespectful about society acting as though women reach 50 and should immediately begin preparing to disappear. Excuse us? Some women reach 50 and realize they finally have enough…
A food recall notification hits the news. Then another product appears in a headline. You open your refrigerator and stare suspiciously at the lettuce like it personally owes you an explanation. Food…
An Alzheimer’s diagnosis can change the atmosphere of an entire family. There is the medical information to absorb, appointments to schedule, decisions to make, and questions about what the future may hold.…
The group chat has been saying “We need a girls’ trip!” for approximately three years. Everybody agrees. Everybody sends resort videos. Everybody drops heart-eye emojis. Then somebody asks for dates. Silence. Welcome…
Your best friend needs help moving a sofa. Your husband owns a truck. Does she call him directly? Your husband’s female coworker sends him funny videos at 11:30 at night. Harmless friendship…
When you’ve spent years protecting your child from the full truth, what happens when that child becomes an adult and gets to decide what the truth means for himself? Kristy is 45…
We often describe design through what we can see: color, materials, furniture, lighting, typography, composition. But the strongest design is rarely remembered only because it looked beautiful. It is remembered because it…
It usually begins with one. One suspicious silver strand standing proudly at the front of your head like it personally paid rent. You pull it. Another appears. Then three. Then twelve. Eventually,…
There was a time when contacting customer service felt relatively straightforward. You had a problem. You called a company. A human being answered. You explained the problem. The human being attempted to…
Women will schedule everything. The dentist. The oil change. The children’s appointments. The dog’s grooming appointment. The work meeting. The birthday dinner. The grocery pickup. The hair appointment. The conference call that…
There are countless articles about recognizing a bad friend. The selfish friend. The jealous friend. The unreliable friend. The friend who only calls when she needs something. The friend who disappears…
Nobody wants to think about dying. We would much rather discuss vacation plans, what we’re ordering for dinner, whether we’re finally going to clean out that closet, and why the grocery store…
There is a special stage of workplace exhaustion where you have not officially resigned, but spiritually? You left three meetings ago. You still log in. You still answer emails. You still attend…
There is apparently a secret adult-woman checklist floating around somewhere. By a certain age, you are supposed to have checked all the boxes. Husband? Check. Children? Check. House with an attractive kitchen…
Somewhere along the way, society decided that romance has an expiration date. Apparently, you’re supposed to meet someone in your twenties, get married by thirty-something, build a life together, and then spend…
There comes a point in adulthood when going out starts requiring entirely too much preparation. First, you have to decide where everybody is going. Then somebody doesn’t like the restaurant. Someone…
I Am an Unreliable Woman: 7 Ways to Become Someone People Can Depend On Without Burning Yourself Out
There is an uncomfortable moment in adulthood when you realize people have adjusted their expectations of you. You say you’re coming. Nobody counts you in the final headcount. You say you’ll…
You are tired. Not regular tired. Not I stayed up too late watching videos when I knew I had an 8:00 a.m. class tired. You are overwhelmed. Your assignments are piling up.…
One of the hardest parts of being hurt by someone isn’t always what they did. Sometimes it’s watching them feel absolutely no remorse about doing it. You keep waiting for the moment.…
There is a version of forgiveness that women are often encouraged to practice that sounds suspiciously like returning to the exact same situation that hurt them. Forgive them. Call them. Invite them…
There can be a quiet sense of relief when a Black woman walks into a new workplace and sees another Black woman. Especially when there aren’t many of us in the…
8 Signs They Were Never Really Your Friend There is something uniquely painful about realizing that someone you considered a friend may have never actually been one. Not a friendship that simply…
There is a very specific kind of emotional warfare known as taking your young adult back to college. It begins innocently enough. You start buying extra-long twin sheets, laundry detergent, storage bins,…
Before your relationship becomes a documentary everyone else is watching. Every few months, a new relationship documentary takes over social media. Suddenly everyone becomes a relationship expert. Friends who couldn’t spot a…
How to recognize the signs, rebuild trust, and repair your reputation without quitting your job. There is an uncomfortable truth that very few workplace articles talk about. Sometimes… You’re not working with…
When love quietly becomes overprotection, overinvolvement, and overcontrol. There was once a time when the phrase “helicopter parent” became part of everyday conversation. We all know what it means. The parent who…
Lauren wonders whether her fear of losing her husband has caused her to hold on so tightly that she may be preventing the marriage from growing naturally. Dear Connected Woman I’m writing…
Why You Should Stop Asking Women Why They’re Single, Why They Don’t Have Children, or Why They Don’t Smile More There are certain questions women hear so often that they should qualify…
When people decide to improve their health, they often imagine expensive gym memberships, intense workout programs, complicated meal plans, or waking up before sunrise for boot camp classes. While those approaches work…
There are people who walk into a room and immediately make others feel seen, valued, and confident. It is not always because they are the smartest person in the room or the…
For many women, homeschooling has shifted from being an unconventional educational choice to one that is seriously considered. Some mothers are drawn to the flexibility it offers, while others are motivated by…
Q: How do I stop comparing my career progress to everyone on LinkedIn? A: The first thing to remember is that LinkedIn is a professional highlight reel. Most people share promotions,…
For many women, the word mother immediately brings feelings of warmth, comfort, sacrifice, and unconditional love. For others, it brings confusion, grief, disappointment, anger, longing, or silence. The truth is that not…
